Sunday, May 15, 2011

Awareness of HEART and the BRAIN…!!!

Whenever you take up a decision…what is it that influences you to choose an option out of the given most appropriate options? Does your decision has a stronghold of your heart or you give it a thought and decide with your brains? People may ponder on what exactly am I speaking…well it’s something that deals with your intuitions of doing something after giving a proactive thinking as well as taking decisions in unconsciousness. The decisions you take in your life be it any daily routine or something which turns your life upside down primarily depends on the awareness of your mind over the decisions imposed by your heart and vice versa.

You may come up with questions like what do you mean by decision of heart and brain?

I will answer this question…but before that let me ask you all a question. Whenever a new gadget is launched and it seems to you, this is something you want but you don’t have the appropriate funds for it…how do you go about it? Here comes the awareness i.e., your heart dearly wants to have the new gadget but your brains directs your heart about the complexity of your wishes. The ideal situation comes out to be either you wait for the prices to go down or you wait to have enough funds to buy the gadget. This is just an example but believe me in real life all your decisions and success are based on the co-ordination of these two aspect i.e., the brain and the heart.

Decision of heart…

To explain heart and its decision I will take a philosophical route…all your wishes and desires that emerges and grows within you has a close relation with your thinking, mentality and emotions. Its known heart is the centre of all your emotions and feelings as such decisions imposed on you as a result of your emotions are basically heart centric and thus called decisions of heart. Whenever you take decisions from your heart with almost no interaction with your brain more often than not you land up in troubles as there is no thought process involved, as such those desires end up as a vague dream.

Decision of brain…

Suppose you are running a business and the sole aim of yours is to earn profit and money. In lieu of achieving success you have become so mechanical that you don’t have time for your family and friends. Suppose a close friend of yours is coming to meet you after many years and you still have some pending works…what will you do? Here comes the decision of brain, if you go on to complete your work to stay ahead in business…well you certainly did a splendid work…you have given time for your work instead of the leisure time you could have spent with your friend. But then you have lost a human aspect…the happiness of success and achieving a rare feat is sweet only when you have someone to share it with. I am not arguing that you shouldn’t give your work an importance but then you shouldn’t neglect the human within you…and become mechanical. Decisions of brain may take your career to new heights but with absence of coordination with your heart it would certainly be of no use.

Now you know whatever decisions you take and whatsoever be the force that led you to take any particular decision the absence of either heart or the brain is certainly not acceptable. Now you may come up with what should we do then?

Most of the people make the same mistake while making any decision, where they should consult themselves they are found clueless as they are only focused on any one of the above mentioned factors. I can assure you one thing a decision can be best when you take your decision consulting both your brain and heart.

A famous saying says listen to all but take decisions of your own…have you ever thought what does it mean? It simply means we should be broad enough to look into the views of what others are suggesting but while taking any decisions we should concentrate on our self as you are the one who knows yourself the best…and when I am speaking of self it simply means your heart and the brain taken together and acting as if it’s a single unit.

You know great things are not achieved because of great thinking but they are, as a result of many small appropriate steps...and all the small steps are a result of numerous small decisions taken into consideration consulting both aspect of your personality (i.e., the heart and the brain) and when you start making these small steps into a habit these small things become your character and then…everything that you do whether it’s an unconscious one your heart and brain would take equal participation in your decisions and then you achieve what others could only dream of…

Awareness of heart and the mind is a must if you people believe in achieving success by believing in yourself…here I end up with a slogan of success…you know you are on the right track…when you start feeling from your brain and thinking from your heart.
So guys don’t just read it as yet another topic but implement it into your lives: FEEL from your BRAIN and THINK from your HEART

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Choice is yours…!!!

You often have a dilemma of choosing between two most appropriate options…have you ever thought what would be the outcome if you have chosen the wrong options to consider right in front? No matter how tactfully you analyze or intellectually you handle the final two options,you will always land up in wrong quarters…life changing decisions and opportunities doesn’t give you life long time to think to act upon your decision, it doesn’t come up knocking your door but it gives enough evidence of its arrival but then if you fail to conceal with it …you know what happens next…
With majority of my blogs I have tried to voyage my thinking with one of the main aspect of life…that’s love this blog of mine is certainly not any exception…but would certainly give the readers with few extra tilts to look upon a relation.

Parents are the one who take all the burden right from our childhood for all our requirements and necessities even by keeping themselves awaken at night, keeping themselves hungry so that we are satisfied with what we have…it can be rightly said no one this world can love you more than your parents…but life is not only blossoming yourself under the care and guidance of your parents…it owes you the same care and respect when they are old and then when your parents are no more with you, you have the responsibility of inheriting it into your next generations…apart from the parents with whom you share a blood relation there is someone whom you may not even know of his /her existence until the right time when that very person becomes your partner for life and a person to rely on for every moment of life…
Today…I am with the story of a boy and girl…an ordinary story but certainly with some extraordinary thinking’s…that crept on the mind of the girl…and finally this happened…!!!

Conductor: the bus is about to leave all the passengers are requested to check their belongings and settle in their respective seats…
Bus started slowly…Anirban who was seating in the corner window seat saw a women in her high 40’s waving to the bus from behind to stop. Anirban asked the conductor to stop so that the lady could catch the bus. Finally the lady came in and sat and then the bus started again…it was the spring time and the suburban roads were filled with water with the overnight rain…overhearing the instructions of the passengers the driver drove carelessly.
Woman: thanks young boy…because of you I could catch the bus today.
Anirban: it’s my pleasure anybody in my place would have done the same.
Woman: recollecting something…I know you…
Anirban: aunty am Anirban…
Woman: oh…yes how are you doing these days?
Anirban: am into a job…everything is fine…how is Anamika doing?
Woman: she going to get married next month…the bridegroom is good…
Anirban: nice to hear that…hope he keeps Anamika so happy that she may never feel the absence of uncle and you in her new home…
Woman: Anamika is still a kid…she doesn’t know what’s good for her…am sure she would be missing us…but then she will learn to adapt there…can anybody love someone more than their own parents? I suppose no, but then bridegrooms family is good…she would be happy there.
Anirban: parents always have a dilemma in spite of choosing the best possible match whether their child would be happy or not…but believe my aunty there has to be a person who loves your daughter more then you as she would be spending her entire life with him…that person has to be your bridegroom…
Suddenly the bus was out of control and it broke one of the barriers and went straight into the marsh land…Anirban couldn’t move as he was struck found Anamika’s mother lying senseless he woke her up and pulled the emergency window and pushed Anamika’s mother out of the bus…speaking there has to be someone who loves your daughter more than you…Anamika’s mother could only crawl few feet’s away from the bus, the bus exploded.

In the hospital:
Anamika’s mother lying with her crutches told how she could escape death to everyone around. She later asked about the condition of Anirban.
Anamika: doctors would soon let us know about his condition…(started crying)
Anamika’s mother: what happened?
Anamika: few day’s back….i met Anirban.
Anamika’s Mother: what did he say to you?
Anamika…continued….
Anamika: I asked him do you still love me.
Anirban: The answer of your question lies in the answer of the question I am going to ask to you..
Anamika: what’s your question?
Anirban: Does your parents still love you?
Anamika: yes they do, but how is it related with my question?
Anirban: it has a deep relation. You know your parents love you, you don’t have to ask them every now and then whether they love you or not…similarly the person whom you marry should be as such with whom you can spend your entire life without even asking him whether he loves you or not because you know his love for you is much more than your own life…as far as I am concerned I have chosen the a person to be my life a long time back, am just waiting for your decision.
Anamika: but I love somebody else.
Anirban: it’s your problem then…I know I have chosen the right person for me, it’s upon you to decide the right person for you…
Anamika: you can’t force…an issue can you?
Anirban: I never forced you, in fact I never bothered you loving me because my love for you is so much that I never paid any heed about your feelings for me…even when you hated me…now you say isn’t this love like your parents? They love you and sacrifice everything for your well being without even thinking what you think of them.
Anamika: you can never question about the love the parents have for their child as they have a blood relation but how can I be sure about you?
Anirban: the person you would marry someday surely won’t have any blood relation with you, but then that very person would become everything for you…that’s why I told you it’s your problem if you love somebody else as far as I am concerned I have made the right choice… decision is yours.
Anamika: you speak like a fairy tale…what exactly can you do for me?
Anirban: anything…you want my life I can forego my life for you.
Anamika: then that’s a promise from my side if you give your life I will surely put flowers on your photo…
Anirban: I know I don’t mean anything to you…but be certain if I have to give my life for your happiness I won’t step back…

Nurse came in:
Nurse: bad news for you… we couldn’t save Anirban…

Anamika’s mother now realised what did Anirban’s last word meant….’there has to be someone who loves Anamika more than you’…and along with Anamika she also burst into tears.
Later bridegroom’s family cancelled the marriage because of an unexpected death of one of their family member…
In the shock Anamika…could only recollect the last conversation with Anirban.
Anamika: then that’s a promise from my side if you give your life I will surely put flowers on your photo…
Anirban: I know I don’t mean anything to you…but be certain if I have to give my life for your happiness I won’t step back…
Anamika: the person I would be marrying would certainly not speak of death every time…
Anirban: Anamika…you know many things are controlled by human’s decision even death sometimes…and you would hopefully realize it someday…!!!

A decision of choosing between life and death…certainly Anamika didn’t choose life for Anirban…as Anamika was his only life…he didn’t step back when death came across him and also proved he would do everything for her happiness…
there are many lives that are being spoilt by a person’s decision of neglecting a person who really loves you…hopefully after reading, people would start respecting true love and its importance to one’s life…!!!
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